What Men Look for on a First rendezvous?

Does she complain about men?
Is she open to trying new things?
Do I like her clothes and sense of style?
Can she speak intelligently about more than one thing (such as her job)?
Is she emotionally available or is she still talking to her ex a lot? (This is very important!)
Can she maintain eye contact? Is she nervous?
Is there some energy between us or is it flat? (Nervous is better than flat.)
Is she generous or is she confrontational?
Can she hold her own opinion without making me wrong?
Does she have a good sense of humor and a “fun” attitude?
Does she get my sense of humor? Is she happy?
Do we have chemistry?
Is she open and not afraid to show that she likes me?
Is she high maintenance?
Does she talk about nicer places than the one you are taking her to in
ways that makes you think she would have rather gone there?
Does she pick the most expensive thing on the menu on the first date?
What Women Look for on a First rendezvous?

Does he carry himself with confidence?
Did he complain about every aspect of his life?
Does he appear trustworthy, dependable and honest?
Do we have good chemistry? Am I attracted to him?
Do I like his sense of humor? Does he have one?
Did we have fun together?
Was he complimentary?
Did he say something positive about the way I look?
Did he only have eyes for me? Or was he interested in other women in
the room?
Is he a good communicator? Did he listen and appear to be interested in what I had to say?
Is he well groomed with good hygiene? Clothes clean and pressed?
Is he interesting?
Did we engage easily in conversation or was it a struggle?
Did he only talk about himself?
Is he intelligent?
Does he seem interested in life?
Is he the type of man who makes things happen?
Does he have good manners?
Did he show me consideration and treat me with respect?
Is he polite to others?
Was he insulting about his exes?

The fundamentals for a successful rendezvous:

Grooming & appearance: approach it as you would other important areas of your life – with care & respect. Keep it clean, simple & conservative.
Tip: stay away from cologne & perfume!

Manners: the practice of good manners requires little effort yet it leaves a lasting impression.
Tip: always be on time!

Communication: share, listen, maintain eye contact, smile, be pleasant, and upbeat. Talk more of the present and don’t dwell on the past.
Tip: confidence is sexy!

Drinking: keep it simple, social and moderate.
Tip: glazed eyes and slurred words are never attractive!

Sincerity: so simple – so powerful. Do not hold back on sincerity.
Tip: if you want to see them again – tell them!

Be yourself: let them get to know YOU, right from the start.
Tip: stay true to the person you know best – You!

 
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